When performed in the Extended Cowgirl position, the standard partner-on-top sex dynamic is turned upside down. This not only makes everyone more at ease, but it also gives the receiving partner more agency in determining the ideal location.
Laying flat on a comfy surface allows the penetrating partner to achieve this sex position. In order to have intercourse, the receiving partner crosses their legs over the penetrating partner's hips. After the receiving partner is in position, they should spread their legs out and lay them flat on the floor. After that, they can lean forward or backward to discover the optimal position for an orgasmic experience.
If you're looking for a more relaxed and easy variant of the Cowgirl sex position, try the Extended Cowgirl. Unlike Cowgirl, which demands that the top partner kneel, Extended Cowgirl lets them sit with a slight lean back for support. For some who find it difficult to kneel, this may be a suitable alternative. Another perk of this position is the unique vantage point it provides.
The upper partner must carefully lower themselves onto their spouse to achieve this position. Nobody wants to risk penis harm by rushing or forcing themselves into this position.
Throughout the position, the partner on top mostly exerts control. With the help of their arms, they have complete freedom of movement, allowing them to ascend, descend, or spin at will. Sliding forwards and backwards is the most natural motion for most couples, and it can give the receiver great interior sensations with little effort on the part of the penetrating partner.
The Extended Cowgirl position is ideal for sex toys because it puts the penetrating partner in a flat, comfortable posture with both hands available. A prostate massager or other anal device can be worn by the penetrating partner, while a wand massager can be held in the hand to gratify the receiving spouse. The We-Vibe Chorus (seen here) and the Fun Factory NOS are two examples of shared toys that can be beneficial to both players.
If the person on top of you identifies as male, you might hear this sex position referred to as the Extended Cowboy Position.