Because it is both easy to learn and practise, the Classic Bed Bondage sex position is often among the first bondage positions that couples try out when they get their hands on some cuffs.
A bound person can achieve this sex position by laying flat on their back and placing their head close to the edge of a bed. Next, the partner who is free will secure the bound person's hands above their head to the headboard using a restraint—here shown as cuffs, but any kind of rope or bondage tape would do). While one spouse remains chained to the bed, the other is free to move about as they choose.
With four bondage points and the goal of spreading the limbs out as far as possible, the Spread Eagle posture is a heavier bondage variation of the Classic Bed Bondage posture.
*No one should ever leave a person in bondage alone. You shouldn't ever leave your tied partner alone in the room, even when you're free to roam around and adjust yourself.
Many couples begin their bondage explorations in the Classic Bed Bondage position. Unlike some other bondage positions (like Hogtie!), the Classic Bed Bondage takes place in a familiar environment (your bed!) and only requires one entry-level item (a pair of cuffs!). This makes bondage appear less intimidating.
The inclusion of wrist cuffs makes it easy to tailor it to the couple's measurements. The Classic Bed Bondage position is perfect for couples who like oral sex. The Classic Bed Bondage position is also suitable for couples who enjoy engaging in vaginal sex. Plus, the Classic Bed Bondage position is perfect for those intimate moments when you and your spouse enjoy frotting and porn together.
Because it is so easy to accomplish, the Classic Bed Bondage position can meet a couple where they are and allow them to continue enjoying the things they already love. For a small outlay (the price of the cuffs!), this could be a great way to ease into bondage in the bedroom. (And once you're good at it, it's a quick and easy method to add bondage without breaking out the bondage playthings!)
Choosing a bed frame is the most difficult task for most couples. This bondage sex position calls for a headboard featuring patterns that could serve as bondage points, as shown in the picture. Unfortunately, many couples may be left without a headboard that serves this purpose as the column-based headboard becomes less fashionable.
There is yet hope! You may get the look of this posture without using a metal bed frame in a number of ways:
An intricate web of straps is woven beneath the mattress to form the Under-the-Bed Restraint system. These straps rise up from under the mattress and are secured by your weight resting on top of the mattress. Use this to secure your hands to the bed. On either side of the sex furniture, you'll find bondage points on the Liberator Black Label Wedge. Take advantage of the Wedge's proximity to your body by using it as a pillow. (There is a clear illustration of this in The Assisted Queen.)
One option is to place a spreader bar beneath a pillow, with its ends protruding close to the bound person's hands, where cuffs can be fastened.
In the absence of a headboard, you can secure your bound spouse to the bed using tethers or chains that extend from the feet to the wrist cuffs.
Standard bondage cuffs can be used to tie the wrists together while held above the head. Don't feel obligated to secure them to any certain spot in your home.
This bondage sex position is great for persons with disabilities or chronic pain because it uses your comfortable bed and just requires one or two limbs hoisted above the head. While in this posture, you are free to utilise any bedside aids you normally would, such as heated pads, sex furniture, bolsters, nasal cannulas, and so on.
Paralysed or partially paralysed bound couples may also feel comfortable in the Classic Bed Bondage position. To engage in a way that is most comfortable for them, the bound partner can just lie back on their usual bed. Paralysed persons or those with an unknown lover may find this very useful. Their standard adaptive bed support items can make getting into bed with less help from an unknown person easier, safer, and more comfortable.
The Classic Bed Bondage position could be helpful for anyone dealing with long-term health issues or persistent pain. If you're in physical pain but still want to enjoy intimacy, the combination of the bed's soft surface and the need that you move very little may be just what you need. Wearing a variety of medical gadgets while bound in this posture is possible. These include heating pads, TENS units, cooling pads, compression devices, and medical vibration devices, among others. So long as neither partner disturbs the pain reliever—which they would want to do anyhow—they may both relax and enjoy the posture.
Keep in mind that the Classic Bed Bondage posture does not necessitate raising both hands to the top of the bed. Holding back just one hand will do the trick. With a set of tethers, you can keep your bound position even if your body isn't comfortable or if you have movement issues in your shoulders. This allows you to move your hands practically anyplace around the top part of the bed.
If it fails, you might want to reconsider using the bondage point that is based on the bed. Two common methods are binding the wrists together as the bound person lies on their stomach, or just holding them at the side for mental bondage while cuffs encircle them for extra feeling.
This bondage posture is ideal for a wide variety of activities that need two people working together. No sexual activity is necessary if you prefer a non-sexual bondage. Just cuddle up in front of the TV if your lover finds bondage calming when doing other things.
Because it frees up the unbound partner's movement, the bound partner's lower body is free to move around and is ideal for activities that centre around the bound partner. This posture is perfect for cock worship, pussy worship, edging, or orgasm torture. Another way for the unbound partner to give their bound partner an orgasmic experience is by using a sex toy.
We advise against using the Classic Bed Bondage position while you sleep, despite its convenient placement on top of your bed. Long lengths of time with hands raised above head are painful, and there's a chance they can pull a shoulder muscle while trying to roll over in their sleep.