Bondage and leverage for deeper penetration are both offered by the size-friendly Carnal Clutch sex position.
The receiving partner lies on their back at the edge of an elevated surface to enter into the Carnal Clutch sex position. With a spreader bar around their ankles, they lift their feet into the air. Thrusting while holding the spreader bar for stability, the penetrating partner stands next to the elevated surface, pressing their hips against the receiving partner.
A spreader bar is located in the middle of this sex position. Even while spreader bars are great in a lot of sex positions, the Carnal Clutch makes great use of them in a variety of ways during intercourse. As the penetrating partner gains power, they are able to penetrate deeper and rougher, while the receiver experiences sensual sensations of bondage.
In addition to providing bondage sensations, the spreader bar in Carnal Clutch has a dual purpose by helping to maintain the receiver's leg lifts in the air. During this position, it's important to speak clearly so that the penetrating partner doesn't tire out too quickly by supporting too much weight on their arms instead of their legs.
A lot of spreader bars are cold-rolled, strong metal. Great! Feel free to utilise that spreader bar if it's the one you own. However, a blanket or towel wrapped around the spreader bar will provide the right amount of comfort for the penetrating partner's chest and arms. On the other hand, the Liberator Talea spreader bar, which is adorned with high-density foam to support sex postures and provide bondage points, is displayed alongside the Carnal Clutch.
The receiving partner in the Carnal Clutch sex position must be able to raise their legs straight up in the air, as shown in the picture. The penetrating partner may struggle to reach penetration distances while holding the spreader bar if the receiver is unable to stand with their legs straight up.
Putting the spreader bar behind your penetrating partner's back will allow you to still experience some of the benefits of the Carnal Clutch position, in case that degree of flexibility isn't comfortable for you. Even when the penetrating partner can't use the spreader bar as leverage, the receiver still gets the sexual feeling of BDSM bondage with less flexibility because the bar is resting behind them.
Size doesn't matter in the Carnal Clutch position. With the bodies positioned in such a way, height differences are less of an issue, and there's plenty of room for bigger tummies and thighs. Try laying the receiver down in different positions if the penetrating partner is having trouble getting penetration at that height. To achieve this sex position, you need to find the right height—or lack thereof—couch, bed, sex furniture, or surface.